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On Beauty, Light & the Power of Seeing Yourself

One of the best compliments I’ve ever gotten has been from a client’s mother who asked her “does Vanessa only photograph beautiful people?” I laughed, first, because it’s funny, but then because I didn’t have an answer. How do you answer that? I had no idea. If I say no, well I’m calling my clients ugly and if I say yes then those who believe themselves to be not so beautiful won’t feel worthy of being photographed. Today, I can freely answer that question because I now fully understand what I do and why I do it.

Photography has been connected to a part of my soul that has always seen more than I could be cognizant of in my day-to-day life. It was as if I entered another part of me whenever I photographed people. I could filter through to the smallest gestures, the truest expressions, the subtlest of emotions, without knowing how, just seeing something that lit up, a spark of life beyond words, a glimmer of light, an undefinable beauty.

I had never known what drove me, what gave me the patience to wait for those sparks to show up, what it was that I was seeing. Now, I know, it is light. It is the light inside. That light that turns on when we are born and turns off when we die. For a very long time, I realize, I could not see that light in me, but I could see it in my clients, especially when photographing children. That untarnished light was visible in everything they did, and I wanted to capture it, I wanted to remember it, to connect to it.

That light is in us all, it is what makes us all beautiful in our own unique way, it is what I look for when I shoot, it is what I see when you hear me say from behind the camera “there it is.” We all have it. Yes, every one of us. But, because of our own issues and the continuous diet of photographic lies we consume with every magazine cover we see depicting ‘beauty’ as perfection and flawlessness, we believe the superficial description of beauty. We believe that the lines on our faces, the dimples on our cheeks, and the marks on our bodies are ugly, uncommon, and unacceptable. We feel less worthy of compliments, less accepting of ourselves and in turn less accepting of others. And that light slowly begins to dim, every day, to the detriment of our well being and to those that love us.

Too many times I hear my clients shying away from being in a photo because of weight, self-image, insecurity, or all of the above. The irony is that they understand the value of a photograph, the impact of it, they get it, they hired me to photograph their family, they know it’s important, they value the fleeting stages of life and want to capture them; but yet, they degrade their own fleeting time with simplistic descriptions of themselves that say nothing about who they are and everything about how they feel.

For some time now I’ve been speaking to different women clients/friends about the importance of having a professional photo taken of themselves, just them, as women; not as Moms or caregivers or part of a family, but them as individuals. It is as important for them, for everyone, to see themselves as being important, worthy of it, to see that beauty, to see that light sparkle, to remember who they are and that they are here to shine.

So, this year, for my 38th birthday, I decided I would begin a new tradition for myself, and put my money where my mouth is so to speak. Starting now, I will do a self-portrait on my birthday every year until, well, the end, no matter what. This is not as easy as it sounds, especially for photographers (who notoriously hide behind the camera and are probably the least photographed bunch in the world). However, because I’ve been in search of that light inside me for some time and finally feel like it’s beginning to shine again, I wanted to document it, even if it was hard to do.

Now, I know this is a good year for me to start this, as those of you who knew me prior to 2008 are probably thinking. But, I also know that I’m no model, and I’m no Benjamin Button, and I’m not getting any younger, and the lines will get deeper, and the hands will get more wrinkled, and gravity will take it’s toll. So it’s even more important to me to remember how I feel, to see the light sparkle, to document what I looked like and how I felt at 38 (I know my 88 year old self will thank me one day).

To answer the most pressing question on your minds, yes, I’ve done very minor retouching on these, the same I do for my clients, but I don’t believe in ironing the skin beyond recognition; so, you can still see my frown line, my imperfect skin, my veiny arms and hands, the marks on my skin, the scar on my forehead etc. I will post some before & after shots on the Facebook page for the curious few.

Ladies, women, Moms…I urge you to open up and give this gift to yourselves. I promise you, you will not regret it. You are beautiful. I can see it. As a photographer, that is always my goal. To reveal beauty beyond what you see with your eyes, to go to that place that reveals the beauty that is in us all, to reveal the beauty that is not just seen but the one that is felt.

I will post a special promotion for our Facebook fans that want to see the beauty in themselves.

Keep shining.
♥ Vanessa

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Cousin-g Around • miami Family photographer

This group of cousins was such a fun bunch to photograph. The guys were in town visiting for the holidays and Aunt Lori decided to do a session of the gals and guys; a fabulous idea, don’t you think? Their relationship is exactly what extended families are all about; the comfort and hilarity of shared childhood stories and the simple bond that ties you together for life. It made me reminisce on the sixteen first cousins I have in Panama (that’s just on my father’s side!) and all the crazy stories from our childhood growing up together. I had a great time clowning around with these four, climbing trees, laughing, joking. My fave is the jumping shot, LOVE their faces there. Enjoy! ♥ Vanessa

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Do you mean business? • Headshots Miami Photography

Whether you’re on Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, Plaxo, your blog or any other form of social media, your photo IS the first impression they will get of you. It IS your image and quite often THE face of your business. It is as important to your business as a great website or brochure. A professional photograph tells your clients and potential clients that you mean business, that you will take them as seriously as you do yourself. A proper representation of you, your personality, and your business is an intangible asset whose rewards you will reap for many years.

Why not make sure it is the right image? A professional image. Your business headshot or executive portrait can be done in the studio, in an outdoor location or in your business/office. Contact the studio for more information on our Executives Collection or for a quote.

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Just Because • Miami photography studio

It’s a special birthday…her 21st. This is Patricia, who is quite soulful and centered for such a young woman. Her Mom is a High-School teacher who has been following my Senior photography for a while and thought it would be sensational to commemorate this most exciting of birthdays with a photo session. As you can see, Patrcia’s style is eclectic, flirty, and fun…very feminine; yet, you wouldn’t believe it if I told you that she plays basketball and works at a basketball camp; AND she loves music and converse shoes (which she was wearing with this first dress–my kinda girl). I love contrasting eclectic styles like hers, so I had a blast! We got honked at several times, which comes as no surprise in Miami, and sweated like if we were doing the shoot on the surface of the sun. But, since I am like Superman and I get my power from the sun (LOL), the session was flawless and Patricia scored high on her very first professional photo session! Take a look at this gorgeousness….

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fabulous females • portrait photography miami

when it came time to design my new website and this blog, I was scrambling to find a decent photo of myself to post on the sites. “this is ridiculous! I’m a photographer for God’s sake, I should have a decent photo of me somewhere”. well, i didn’t and so i realized that though i’ve taken thousands of photos for my clients and family and friends, i had rarely stepped in front of the camera. so, when i visited my good friend (and great photographer) Aris Wells in North Carolina, we decided to photograph each other. it was such a life-affirming experience for me, giving myself that importance. i hear from most moms that their family albums look like their kids don’t have a mother because they’re rarely in any of the pictures, they’re always the ones snapping away and even more the kids photos are always more important.

well ladies, it’s time to change that!!

forget about not weighing what you weighed in high-school, forget about the extra years of life experience under your belt, forget about Angelina/Halle/Heidi or whoever your standard of “beauty” is and I challenge you to feel amazing, to feel beautiful, to feel alive, to feel like YOU.

this session was just that. Chris called me to do a shoot of herself and it was fabulous. we did lots of fun and flirty shots that i’m so excited about.

I gave this post a little extra love to inspire you all to do the same, “put your records on” and do this for yourselves. Chris you are a beautiful soul…

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